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2018-10-02T12:25:48
I was talking to this gentleman who sat across me in the OPD a month ago.His mother has been diagnosed with breast cancer and I was going over the details of treatment with him. He wanted to know how much the entire process would cost and how his mother was morbidly scared about the whole process, considering the fact that his father had recently completed treatment for Cancer of the voice box.During the conversation, I gathered he was their only son, working as a lecturer in an Engineering college and taking care of his parents. He had a sister, who lived in another city. What amazed me was his cool demeanour, his highly organised approach to the problem, his intense concern for his parents and the urge to get things done at the earliest. I could not help but ask him if this situation did not stress him out.He had a job to perform, his own young family to look after and if that was not enough, two ageing parents with cancer. His response was, to say the least, like a whiff of fresh air, in times where many old parents are left to fend for themselves in Old People’s’ Homes. He said, ‘Doctor, I look at this as my good fortune. I see this as a blessing as not many get the opportunity to serve their parents. I feel no stress’. He meant every word of it as I saw him handhold his mother lovingly throughout the process of treatment. I am honoured to know this gentleman. I thank him for restoring my faith in humanity and epitomising the real meaning of ‘Sevabhav’! #Breast Cancer #Max Hospital #Patparganj #Vaishali #East Delhi #Sevabhav
2018-09-13T03:04:32
WHEN YOUR HELP GOES OUT OF ACTION..... The joy of becoming Director, Breast Surgical Oncology, dissipated into thin air when my help did not turn up for work citing an excruciating back ache. And then all hell broke loose, at least for me, as I realised that a whole new vista of mountains of work had piled up in front of me. My mother in law who is past 75 did her best to restore order but at that age, speed is not on your side. The morning hours between 6 and 7.30 am is nothing short of high speed roller coaster with three people with contrasting needs, rushing off to their respective places of work. One of these people is also me but I was the only one riding the roller coaster. Now I know why the goddesses have multiple arms, symbolic of the multitasking geniuses women are. I had exactly an hour and a half in which to don the cape of Superwoman! I would have to conjure up six dishes. Each of us would eat a different thing and carry yet another thing for lunch. Spoilt brats, each one of us 😯but blame it on the ever complying help. If this variety in dishes was not enough, my obsessive mind with a fetish for cleanliness would go about setting the house right, ironing out the last crease on the bed and cleaning the bathroom, till the tiles gleamed and the arms hurt. 😱My husband and daughter would look on trying to tell me that my obsession was not their problem-meaning, they would not help!🤨 Out of breath and sweating, I would now get ready for that job, I am trained for and love doing.I would arrive in hospital, without a trace of the battle that I was embroiled in not too long ago. Nobody wants to know that you have just completed a day’s work before coming to the hospital. I am not looking for compassion but this is my tribute to all the women who strive endlessly to make the lives of their loved ones better and then go to work and excel there as well. Breathe ladies and take good care of yourselves!While I love being a woman, I really hope my help comes back soon!
2018-08-19T16:16:37
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ATTITUDE IS TRULY EVERYTHING The picture one would conjure up on seeing this beautiful old lady is that of a loving ‘dadi’ or ‘nani’ full of stories, weaving magic with her deft fingers as spools of thread became exquisite pieces of crochet art.She is all of 86 years old and continues to do all her chores without any help. She does not believe in stopping. And believe me she is quite extraordinary! I have known her for the last 8 years and every meeting with her is inspiring. At the age of 78 years, when many would will themselves to die at the simple pretext of a minor illness, this lady was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. She had deep jaundice and she needed a Whipple’s procedure to get rid of the cancer. This surgery is one of the most challenging to even an experienced surgeon. She and her family were explained the pros and cons in view of her age and frail self. She was determined to see this through. The surgery went to plan but the postoperative period was stormy. She had a bloated abdomen, for which she was re-explored and found to have a twisted bit of intestine. It took her a month to recover and finally, she walked out of hospital, recovered fully.She refused any further treatment and said she felt fine. She would meet me every 3 months for a year and then she stopped coming. I had almost forgotten all about her, when she resurfaced again after almost 1 year. This time she came with an ulcerated mass in the right breast. She was 80 now. She did not want any other treatment except surgery. She had a surgery to remove the breast and the lymph nodes in the armpit. Fortunately, the disease was hormone sensitive. She said no to Radiation and accepted hormonal treatment. What does one say to this except that I was fortunate to witness this most wondrous display of an old lady’s grit and determination, willing herself to live on, in the face of not one but two cancers! She came to meet me five days ago. She is disease free. Her smile lit up her wrinkled face and her eyes sparkled as she said she had come to bless me. I, honestly had nothing to offer her. Did she even realise how inspiring she is? She wanted me to share her story with everyone and so here I am! Important lesson learnt..Attitude is truly everything!!!!
2018-08-02T16:02:32
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WHEN THE CHIPS ARE DOWN.... There are times when one feels trapped, not knowing which way to turn. All spaces close in on you as if to smother you. That is the kind of feeling which had crept into this young patient from Kenya. She had undergone two botched up surgeries on her leg for a tumour, which had now, returned with a vengeance. She is to have more surgery but her spirits are dwindling. She is away from home and only has her twin brother for company. The money is drying up quickly and she, an accomplished dancer, is confined mostly to the bed or the wheel chair as the leg fails to take her weight. Today, she was particularly distraught and her tears flowed freely. Our physiotherapist came to me and asked if we could cheer her up by bringing her to the Breast Support Group meeting, where a troupe of youngsters was coming to get our Champions to perform Zumba. I thought it was a great idea and she was carefully shifted on a wheelchair to the building next door where the program was to be held. And right in front of our eyes began the transformation. The girl could not stop clapping and moving to the beat on the chair while her brother kept pace beautifully with the trained Zumba troupe. The 25 odd Champions, doctors and support staff all got going, only stopping to catch their breath or a sip of water.This little girl got caught in a whirlwind of foot tapping music and an all pervading gush of positive energy. She laughed and spoke to the Champions and believed everyone when they said she would be fine. She left with the promise that when she recovers from surgery and is back on her feet, she will come back for a Theme party and she would lead the dance! So when the chips are down.... DANCE!!
2018-07-27T16:06:52
REFLECTING WITH GRATITUDE Today is Gurupoornima and I am blessed to have had amazing teachers in my life...heartfelt gratitude to all those who held my hand and taught me to walk, to those who saw me trip and fall but let me pick up myself, to those who pushed me so that I would not get used to the comfort of an easy ride, to those who laughed at me so that I could learn to laugh at myself, to those who ridiculed me so that I could start believing in myself! I am grateful to my patients-my awesome teachers-who have taught me how transient life is and how to make life bigger and better every single day. They remind me how minuscule I am in the larger scheme of things and how acceptance is the easiest way to avoid disappointment.May you all live happy, healthy and meaningful lives. Loads of respect to all my Teachers!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻
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