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I was talking to this gentleman who sat across me in the OPD a month ago.His mother has been diagnosed with breast cancer and I was going over the details of treatment with him. He wanted to know how much the entire process would cost and how his mother was morbidly scared about the whole process, considering the fact that his father had recently completed treatment for Cancer of the voice box.During the conversation, I gathered he was their only son, working as a lecturer in an Engineering college and taking care of his parents. He had a sister, who lived in another city. What amazed me was his cool demeanour, his highly organised approach to the problem, his intense concern for his parents and the urge to get things done at the earliest. I could not help but ask him if this situation did not stress him out.He had a job to perform, his own young family to look after and if that was not enough, two ageing parents with cancer. His response was, to say the least, like a whiff of fresh air, in times where many old parents are left to fend for themselves in Old People’s’ Homes. He said, ‘Doctor, I look at this as my good fortune. I see this as a blessing as not many get the opportunity to serve their parents. I feel no stress’. He meant every word of it as I saw him handhold his mother lovingly throughout the process of treatment. I am honoured to know this gentleman. I thank him for restoring my faith in humanity and epitomising the real meaning of ‘Sevabhav’! #Breast Cancer #Max Hospital #Patparganj #Vaishali #East Delhi #Sevabhav
Having been closely associated with the care of cancer patients, I do certainly know that we cure some and we lose some. There is nothing like a 100%. However, when I see patients who have undergone alternative treatments and were assured 100% cure, I can only wonder where this confidence comes from.The number of times I have seen a Stage 1 or 2 Breast cancer on alternative treatments, going on to become Stage 3 or 4 is quite substantial.Anecdotes call for applause but that is not the entire story. And that brings me to Mrs U’s story. I met U, a retired teacher, 10 years ago accompanied by her husband and her daughter, a doctor herself practising in the US. During my conversation with U, she would not make eye contact. She was angry because she did not want to come to see me and her husband and daughter had almost dragged her to the hospital. She had a lump in the left breast of 1 1/2 years duration and was on alternative medication offered by a popular seer.I examined her and was shocked to see a large mass in the left breast occupying about 3/4ths of her breast and bleeding from an ulcer on it.I advised a biopsy and U got up and walked out of my room, explicitly declining my proposition. Her daughter said she would bring her around and went after her. She returned after 4 days and got a biopsy done on her daughter’s insistence and the bleeding from the ulcer was getting her worried too.She muttered and mumbled throughout the procedure, accusing doctors of doing tests to make money and deriding alternative medicine practitioners. The biopsy confirmed cancer and her staging work up fortunately did not show cancer anywhere else in the body.She was offered chemotherapy followed by surgery, radiotherapy and hormonal treatment.Her daughter and her husband stood ground and got her through treatment. It was not an easy ride but she completed treatment. The chances that disease would come back was pegged at 50-60%. Two days ago, she came for her 10th year follow up. Her husband has been rock solid in his support for her. He has ensured she is very regular with her follow up. She continues to be disease free. However, this time was slightly different. She held my hand and apologised to me for her bad behaviour 10 years ago and was grateful for how life had panned out since. I did not know what to say. While what I offered as treatment did help her recover, her husband played an equally important role by ensuring she took her medication on time, ate well and led a healthy life. I complimented him on that and could see tears roll down his cheeks. We do what we can!Blind faith may have serious consequences. Sincerity of purpose, backed by evidence and the support of loved ones can truly move mountains!
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